As Published By
ALAN S. RIPKA, ESQUIRE
Agreeable, Amenable and Malleable to Win
In order to consistently prevail you must be agreeable, amenable, and malleable. These characteristics make it possible to gain trust, show compromise, and restructure deals.
It is so easy, and similarly, adolescent to stand firmly on your position and refuse to yield. This flexing of muscles does nothing but send you home empty handed. In the world of law and deals, the only win is when the case is resolved at a fair bargain, says Alan Ripka, Esq.
It is inexcusable to believe that your adversary is motivated to pay you a cent when you continually insult and declare war. The greater position is one of gaining respect by portraying fairness and displaying knowledge and experience.
Prior to the negotiation or trial, take a deep breath and consider your multiple options. Anticipate what your adversary will say and prepare optional responses. Be prepared to give in to arguments that are sound, and then highlight your strengths. It is easy to agree to defenses when they are accurate and obvious. Compromise on points that you, reasonably, cannot win. By isolating your strengths, you weaken your adversary’s position. It is akin to telling a jury in opening statement that your client was, previously, convicted of a crime. This admission by you takes the wind out of the opposing lawyers sails.
Be the matador, not the bull, having presence of mind to shift, back up and respond strongly when appropriate. Always keep your head up watching and thinking, unlike the bull with his head down, attacking. You will head either home or back to the office with a successful result and a happy client.
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